Lose Your Temper Often? Learn How to Get that Monster in Control

How Rapid Transformation Therapy can help with anger management.

Have you found that you tend to have a stronger emotional and physical reaction around a specific person or a specific personality type? Your heart rate increases, your face gets hot and your palms start to sweat. From that point onwards, the situation usually plays out in one of two ways: you find yourself either getting violently angry with them or walking away… but then you continue to have repeated angry intrusive thoughts for a long period afterwards.

Despite how ‘RIGHT’ you think you are, you, unfortunately, can’t control anyone — not your parents, not your children and definitely, definitely not your partner. Oh sure, you might try, you might beg, cajole or threaten but the truth is people usually change when they want to — not because you want them to.

While this may be frustrating — you are much better served to focus on the one thing you can control. Your reaction.

How can Rapid Transformational Therapy Help you Gain Control?

Anger is typically a reaction to the fear of losing control. People who struggle with Anger Management often fear being at the mercy of others, and this fear may stem from traumatic events that left them feeling helpless and vulnerable.

1. By helping you understand the REAL cause of your anger

RTT (Rapid Transformational Therapy) enables you to communicate directly with your subconscious mind — which is where most of your issues, blocks and limiting beliefs reside. Together we can access the root cause which leads to an understanding of why and when the anger first got triggered. We are then no longer at the mercy of these subconscious triggers and are better equipped to regulate our reactions.

2. By helping you release the past and gain emotional freedom

Losing your temper frequently is almost always a sign of trauma (and we all have some of it!) I’m not saying that the person is not at fault or that the situation was not extremely provoking. However, getting angry prevents you from acting from a powerful centred place and almost always leads to sub-optimal outcomes.

Strong triggers come from significant events in our childhood. Sometimes our mind subconsciously prevents us from letting go of anger because it believes that holding on is somehow serving a purpose.

For instance, we learn that anger can help us get attention or can somehow protect us from getting hurt again. This can be exhausting because even though we subconsciously believe that holding onto this anger is serving us… in reality, these feelings are holding us back. RTT helps us process the pain from these events and unlearn behaviours that are no longer serving us.

3. By helping you believe and embody a better story

RTT helps you transform your negative beliefs about yourself, such as ‘I can’t cope’, into better ones that serve you, like ‘I can overcome any challenges that I face’. Programming this positive story into your mind will make huge shifts in your reaction — you will start to react more and more from a place of strength and confidence. This shift will, as a consequence, start to positively impact your relationships.

RTT can help you gain the control you need to approach the same situation differently. Once you change your mindset, you will change your reality.